A big ol' welcome to Sandy Loyd! It's a pleasure to have you back! Make sure you leave a comment for a chance to enter her giveaway!
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Thanks, Jesse for having me on your blog again. Today I want to talk about something that I find interesting in writing. Reviews that readers write and authors live by.

A couple of weeks ago I started giving away Tropical Spice, the first in my Second Chances Series on Smashwords (see links below post). It’s a fun story that has sold less than 100 copies since its release. I needed a little bit of exposure, so I thought, why not. Within a week, iTunes had picked it up for free and not much later Amazon was price matching.  What happened afterward was very interesting. Suddenly I was getting ratings on iTunes of 4 stars or better. In the last two weeks, the ratings have gone between 4.5 and 4 stars, ending at the time this is written with 116 ratings at 4 stars. But even more interesting are the written reviews on iTunes. I’ve only received two so far and neither is flattering. I’m trying to thicken my skin against such negative feedback, but it’s still hard to accept. My ratings with Goodreads were similar to iTunes. With 17 ratings I have close to a 4 star average. And out of three written reviews, two loved it and one hated it, which leads me to believe the majority of readers enjoyed it. Only a few hated it, but those few wrote in to tell me why.  

“While the book was well worded, the characters were just awful,” one said. And another said, “Pepper had absolutely no will power and Nico was so domineering.”

Okay. I can see how someone might view the characters that way. After all, both had issues and part of their emotional conflict and growth throughout the story were to overcome those issues.  Also, I think the story is a bit different than most contemporary romances, in that I originally wrote it for Harlequin’s Desire line. If you know anything about the line, those stories are more of a fantasy—you know—rich powerful alpha males and the women who love them, which is how I describe the book. Harlequin passed, though “there was much to love.” According to the rejecting editor, my voice was too chatty for their line. Rather than toss what I believe is a really good story, I decided to self-publish, which led to the give-away promotion.

I read an interesting article recently about how bad reviews can skew people’s opinion to the negative, even when they liked something. However, positive reviews can’t convince those who didn’t like it to change their minds. This idea is alarming because so many of those who hate something are quick to bash it, while those who love something aren’t as vocal and even if they were, it still might not have as much impact on perception as the negative. I’ve always tried to be mindful of the damage words can do. I remember one thing my mother told me early on. If you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything. Her advice is certainly worth considering in today’s crazy media.

Unfortunately, no author can please everyone. The best advice I ever received about writing came from a romance author, Elizabeth Beverly, who spoke at my local RWA chapter. She told us to get arrogant about our work and that we’re not writing for the readers who hate the way we do it, but for those who love what we do. Her advice has become my new mantra.

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What do you think about negative words in our social media society? Is it another form of bullying? Have we lost our civility?

Leave a comment and you’ll be entered in a drawing to win an e-copy of Winter Interlude the first book I published and the first book in the California Series.

Do you remember your mother telling you when you were little that you’d never meet Mr. Right if you were spending all your time and energy with Mr. Wrong? And what about the book out a few years ago that created such a hoopla with the single crowd—He’s Just Not That Into You?

The two main characters in Winter Interlude either didn’t heed their mother’s advice or haven’t read the book. Now, add into the plot that the two in question are enemies who regularly run into each other, given their current relationships. Paul Morrison, a hunky, blond, financial planner, has been putting time and energy into winning the heart of Kate Winter’s best friend for almost as long as Kate, a strong willed antiques dealer, has been dating James Morrison, Paul’s brother.

The sparks start to fly when the two get stuck together for a three-hour drive to the mountains and years of misconceptions about each other are slowly being wiped out. It is in the confines of the BMW that the two begin their journey, taking them from being mortal enemies to lovers. 
Winter Interlude tells the story of their adventure—of how they finally find love. Kate and Paul’s story is the first one in a series of four friends caught in a time warp. They can’t move on because they are stuck on their idea of their perfect dreams. But sometimes life works in mysterious ways and they are all forced by circumstances to change.

Winter Interlude – http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008OYT28A.

Links to Tropical Spice – available for a limited time for free. Keep in mind if you do decide to download it for free, it may not be your cup of tea. If so, please don’t drink it—or in this case, read it. And if you like it, a few kind words go a long way.

Smashwords – http://bit.ly/XDgqKR
Amazon US – http://bit.ly/RMgda3
Amazon UK – http://amzn.to/Vvuith
iTunes – http://bit.ly/Yi6WUC
Kobo – http://bit.ly/RMgda3

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Sandy Loyd has published eight books: four contemporary romances and four romantic mystery/suspense/thrillers.  She’s an empty-nester who uses her past experiences and extensive travels to come up with stories with fun characters and twists to entertain.

https://twitter.com/SLoydwrites
http://sandyloyd.com/

 


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03/07/2013 11:06

Hi Sandy! Great post! I tweeted

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03/07/2013 12:11

Thanks, Nancy! I appreciate the tweet!

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03/07/2013 11:10

Thanks for sharing. I love your covers they are beautiful.

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03/07/2013 12:12

Thanks, Cindy! And thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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Roxy Boroughs
03/07/2013 11:32

Hi, Sandy. Hi, Jesse.

Negative reviews are inevitable. Not everyone's going to love every book. And a range is expected. Certainly, if a lot of reviewers say the same thing, it's an opportunity to reevaluate the work. Luckily, being indie, we can.

Whenever, I get a review that stings, I look up my favorite books on Amazon or Goodreads. Even award-winning, best-selling books get bad reviews.

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03/07/2013 12:16

I know they are a part of life and some of the comments are helpful, especially if they point out a problem. Thanks for leaving a comment.

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03/07/2013 11:46

I loved the advice you received about writing for the readers who love your work, Sandy. Keep up the good works and good words.

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03/07/2013 12:17

Thanks, Stanalei.

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03/07/2013 12:25

Not every book fits every reader. I went looking at the reviews for books of famous authors that I read. I found a lot of stinky reviews. Great perspective. :) Best luck, Sandy.

Rose

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03/07/2013 18:15

Thanks for your comment. I'll have to start reading other authors' reviews. I usually don't read them, because I like to form my own opinion on whether or not I will like an author's voice.

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03/07/2013 12:55

Hi Sandy, excellent advice to write to the writers who love what we write- and I love what you write. Reviews are tough because whether we like it or not, personal bias can come into play. Great post!

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03/07/2013 18:13

Thanks Kylie for leaving a message. Appreciate the comment!

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Tina M
03/07/2013 17:06

Love the cover..Thanks for this great giveaway..Tweeted this contest for you..

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03/07/2013 18:12

Thanks, Tina. Hope you enjoy it.

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03/07/2013 18:32

Intriguing post. And, I, too, want to give a thumbs up to your book covers.

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03/07/2013 21:43

I enjoyed your thought provoking post, Sandy. I'm of the old school, and our mothers could have known each other. I was raised to be lavish with compliments and diplomatic when dishing out a dose of criticism. We live in a different world now, so positive reviews are precious gems.

Lovely book cover!

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03/19/2013 13:14

The topic that you are mentioned just awesome. I think that blogging is one of the best qualities that you have.

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